The national guidance called on 4-H to treat all students consistent with their gender identity and allow them "equal access," even when families or community members "raise objections."
"As is consistently recognized in civil rights cases, the desire to accommodate others’ discomfort cannot justify a practice that singles out and disadvantages a particular class of individual," the national proposal read.
https://www.desmoinesregister.com/story/news/investigations/2018/11/18/4-h-transgender-lgbt-iowa-joh...
I don't think the multi letter persons should be left out or excluded, but if you're telling me that my daughters have to bunk and shower with a boy who "today" thinks he is a girl, I've got problems.
